I'm a throwback. Yep. In today's world, in the good old US of A, I am not considered to be normal, at least to the left-wing, liberal morons who do their best to belittle those of us who actually enjoy, yes! enjoy being housewives/homemakers.
We are told we don't measure up to their exacting standards, because we don't have jobs outside the home to contribute to 'society', by people who are so bloody damned stupid that they can't see ANY virtue in managing a home, raising children, supporting our husbands who DO earn a living, and basically focus on living a Godly life.
I decided decades ago, at the ripe old age of twenty, that I had had enough of 'college' and had only been biding time until Brad and I could afford to get married. Then, in the fall of 1974, his uncle passed away and someone had to take over the property and livestock he left behind. It fell on us and we were married in March of 1975. We've never looked back.
Neither one of us ever went further in our education than receiving Associates Degrees from our local community college. Yet, Brad entered law enforcement two years after we were married and retired as the head of CID. He went on to become the Director of the Police Academy at the SAME community college where we both graduated back in the early 70's.
While he was with Sherman PD he was sent to many classes and courses in
management and amazed the instructors with his knowledge and wisdom,
even being invited to join a graduate program! His response was, "Well,
thank you! But I think I need more than an Associate's Degree before I
can do that." It was a jaw dropping moment for the guy who invited him.
He was looked down on and belittled by the so called academics at the local college who couldn't bear the thought that he didn't have a Masters Degree. If those academics had any idea what his salary was as Director they would have come unglued. Seems that all those years in a civil service law enforcement career actually counted for something when it came to determining what his pay scale would be. He was paid as if he had a Master's Degree, even though he didn't have a Master's Degree. So, no. He's not normal either.
We are not considered normal by 'society' because we don't fit their mold. We don't have degrees. We have no desire to be considered 'experts' in anything. But we are very good at what we do. Even in retirement Brad is active and makes an impact on our community in many ways. We both do our best to be good examples to others on how to live a Godly life, to make better choices and live better lives. And we have a better income in retirement than the snotty little libs at that same college today!
We support our family and are able to be a resource to our daughter, son-in-law, and their children. Together, Brad and I are a team. Our daughter and her husband are a team. Our grand-children are growing up to be intelligent, active members of the family team.
Their parents are home-schooling them and making sure they are well able to take on the world at some point in their lives. They love living on the family farm where their Grandpa grew up. Audrey loves standing in her kitchen, looking out the same window her Grandmother looked out while doing the dishes and looking out the same back door to check on the kids while they are outdoors. We have continuity in our lives that liberals will never get, never understand, never respect.
Audrey is a stay at home mom. David works his butt off usually six days a week, coming home to kids who are excited to see him, crawling all over him, snuggling them and his baby boy. He has a wife who loves him and puts his needs ahead of her own, just as he puts her needs above his own. They both put the children first. And everyone's needs are met and fulfilled in a manner that the selfish, self-centered, liberal loons can never understand. They don't know what they are missing and they call us abnormal because we don't fit their ideal.
And here I am, on a gorgeous Saturday afternoon, enjoying a Texas Spring day, doing laundry! Yep! That's right. I've got the sheets off of the king size bed in the wash right now, almost ready to go into the dryer. The kitchen is clean. All of our clothes are clean and put away and I have the rest of the day to do with as I wish. Freedom is a wonderful thing.
I'm not wearing a face diaper when I go out. I come and go when I choose, go where I choose, when I choose. I carry a gun if I choose, where it is legal to do so, and no one tells me what to do. Life is great. It's even better when you can grow a spine and stand up for your rights and freedoms.